One of the hardest things to do in our lives is to let go. It’s not that we want to get stuck in our lives but more that letting go is a painful thing to do.
Sometimes we think it’s only people that are hard to let go of but jobs, business opportunities and even sexual partners can also cause us a lot of pain when we realize that to move forward we need to leave them.
Painful as it is there is something tantric massages in Mayfair taught me and that is to take a deep breath and just detach. It still hurts, of course, but allowing myself to let go of all of the things that are holding me back have also allowed me to appreciate the things that stayed.
You might be shocked that something as sexy as a tantric massage would be the thing to teach me how to let go of things that are ever so emotional in nature. That’s because while tantric massages in Mayfair are definitely sensual in nature they do also carry emotional benefits. That’s because tantric massages are all about learning to be comfortable in the moment, to connect with how we feel and to become more aware of what is nurturing us (and therefore bringing into perspective any negative energy that perhaps we are best living without too).
You might think that you’re having a purely physical experience but the truth is that it’s so much more than that. There is an important emotional component that is actually what gives tantric massages such a strong hold on sensuality.
This doesn’t mean that it will make letting go any less painful but that it will help us recognize when we are emotionally stunted and need to let go. This is what delaying pleasure is all about… learning that even if something feels good sometimes letting that go and giving way to something new is the only way to achieve full life satisfaction. It works in the bedroom and out of it alike.